Sexpert Q&A: Will Loss of Testicle Impact Sex Life?
Hi Yvonne,
How does losing a testicle affect a man’s sexual response? I had an accident, so I wanna know from someone whose knowledge I can trust (and I think that I am asking the right person), if this loss will affect any aspect of my sexuality, like erection. Or will it somehow reduce my chance to have kids?
Mitch
Dear Mitch,
When a male only has one testicle – whether due to undescended testicles (cryptochidism), testicular cancer, or an accident – in most cases, his fertility will not be affected. His remaining healthy testicle should supply enough hormones and produce enough adequate, viable sperm to fertilize eggs, hence have children. To make sure this is the case for you, be sure to consult with your healthcare provider for information on your particular situation.
When it comes to your sexual response, physically, you should not react any differently in becoming aroused, reaching orgasm, and coming down from climax. Psychologically, however, you may grapple with a sense of loss. Men who find themselves with one testicle may feel inadequate, not as masculine, or self-conscious – all of which can impact his sexual functioning. If you’re concerned that any of these issues are yours, or if you worry about how a partner might react, be sure to talk to a sex therapist about any psychological issues at play. A partner who truly cares about you will make every attempt to be compassionate, supportive, and understanding of your situation.
Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”
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If a man was born with three testicles, the loss of one would be a blessing.
Being a testicular cancer survivor (diagnosed 2-1/2 years ago), dealing with the loss of a testicle is not too big of an issue. It’s about attitude more than anything. It’s scary to loose a part of your anatomy, no matter what part. However, the pain and possible threat to life were overriding factors.
I had one child prior to diagnoses so fertitlity has always been fine. I now have a second, a son, who was conceived after surgery and radiation. Stimulation and sensation are definately not an issue.
If you never knew about the issue before, you’d never know there was ever an issue unless you do a manual count of parts. No worry, all will be well.
Dear Mitch,
What kind of accident did you have? Do you not wear pants? Do you use a razor when shaving or a machete?
Are you OK? Would you like a seat on my scrottoman?
PS The uni-ball jetstream is a really great pen. You should really pick one up if you have the chance.
R
I lost both of mine almost a year ago. It has been the greatest blessing for my wife and I. We now make love and I see my wife in a different since. I notice more about who she is and what she feels. My work relationships with other women have changed also. They don’t see me as a threat but as a friend.
Dear R -
Where can I find this uni-ball jetstream? I am quite interested.
Y.G.
Dr. Fulbright,
As usual, your comments are right on. I am a 61 year old white male who got the mumps in 1966 that ended up going down on the left side testicle( my larger and dominant one at that time). The swelling and pain was unbelieveable. It lasted for 2 weeks and I was very ill. Subsequently the left testicle became very small. I sired 2 very healthy children afterward and still enjoy a very healthy and active sex life today with a wonderful woman who is very much younger than me.
Keep up the good work. You are a very knowledgeable counselor that my gal and I enjoy reading and sharing together.
Thank You,
Roy
Let’s keep in mind one fact. 50 % of babies are born without testicles. So if you have even one-stand up and be counted.
If it really bothers you (e.g. in the locker room or if you are seeing new women) they have solid silicone implants that you can place in your scrotum to replace the missing testicle.