Comments on: Sexpert Q & A: Condom Conundrum

By: WTF

WTF — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 14:34:32 +0000

To Sandra:

If your BF is so against an alternative form of contraception, then maybe he should pitch in on the cost of your BC since it is to his benefit and pleasure as well.

By: mr cool tool

mr cool tool — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 23:39:04 +0000

Women should suck them off and you wouldn’t have to worry about condoms.

By: Dan

Dan — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 23:52:33 +0000

My wife and I used condoms for a very long time when we were not trying to have a child. Birth control pills nearly killed her. And not everyone wants to pop out a kid every time they want to be intimate. I seriously doubt that is “God’s Will” either. What a joke.

By: Sandra

Sandra — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 17:00:32 +0000

Very true! BC is not cheap! I have great insurance through my employer yet i am left with few options in regards to birth control. i can pay $20 a month CO-PAY for pills or i can pay $200 every 3 months for a shot. Unfortunately the pills make me sick… and although i have spoken to my BF about us using condoms he is ENTIRELY against it, his argument being that he too (much like the gentleman mentioned above) becomes sexually unresponsive while wearing a condom.

So I guess its going to cost me… at minimum… $800 a year to have sex : /

By: joseph

joseph — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 16:14:17 +0000

seriously, people use condoms for more reasons than preventing STD’s. My girlfriend took a break from using the pill so I need to wear a condom because I don’t want a kid……maybe you are a religious freak that thinks you should only have sex to have a kid but the majority of people don’t think that way.

By: Bill E. Boy

Bill E. Boy — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 16:12:40 +0000

I know from personal experience that if the condom is too small, and therefore too tight, it will kill your erection every time. Try a larger size and see if that doesn’t solve the problem. And it will be more pleasurable as well. With condoms, bigger IS better, so long as it doesn’t fall off!

By: Sarah

Sarah — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 14:35:37 +0000

hi. thank you for taking the time to answer my question. i have a problem. everytime i need to urinate, i get horny. why is that? does this happen to every girl or just me. thank you.

By: Bike Bubba

Bike Bubba — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:15:48 +0000

Actually, the NIH study was pretty conclusive. One might theoretically find a statistically significant reduction in the rate of genhorrea (the original study, ahem, did NOT) if you got a much larger sample size, but reality is that the data collected demonstrated that condom use did not reduce disease transmission in a statistically significant manner for anything but AIDS. Significant infection rates were demonstrated by the NIH for ALL diseases tested by the way–the best possible outcome, really, is that users will get infected more slowly, not that they will not get infected.

Yes, it might also be for contraception (and condoms aren’t a terribly effective contraceptive, actually), but given the lie that has been taught–that using a condom makes sex “safe”–the first question that one ought to ask is “why do you need to use them?”

By: broken

broken — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 16:29:59 +0000

Because not everyone can rely on prescriptions for birth control, and not everyone can afford those prescriptions.

But hey, don’t let anything get in the way of your self righteousness.

By: What

What — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 15:28:11 +0000

To Bike Bubba. . .

Maybe the woman is not using birth control and the condom use has no relation to STD transmission . This could be a long term monogamous relationship! ! !