Comments on: Sexpert Q&A: Laundry Doesn’t Make for Lust

By: ABEL

ABEL — Sun, 31 May 2009 17:10:05 +0000

Dr. Yvonne, i would like to update me about health issues, mostly about sex. As of now i have some complications on my life. Given that time i expect you to atleast send me what iwant. Please reply me as soon as you read this email.
Looking foward to hear from you.
Have a good time.
ABEL

By: Brian

Brian — Fri, 29 May 2009 18:08:42 +0000

My wife has a man friend who wears a rather strong cologne. The residual scent on her, her pillow, the sheets, clothing and elsewhere does, in fact, seem to return to her some sensual feelings. Intersting and I suppose logical. Maybe they should wash each other’s dirty underwear as a means of diminishing or moderating these residual virtual engagements and bring them to a more terrestrial relationship.

By: Amelia

Amelia — Fri, 29 May 2009 17:37:40 +0000

Dear Yvonne,
My husband is returning home from Iraq in a few short weeks. When he comes home, it’s like a honeymoon all over again. It’s fantastic! But a few weeks later, we tend to get into the same old routine with the kids and the house work and work itself. How do we break this thought cycle and keep the fire burning wild like its his first night home?
-Amelia

By: OTC

OTC — Fri, 29 May 2009 16:06:01 +0000

If you have to ask a question like this you’re not mature enough to be living with a significant other.

By: JimO

JimO — Fri, 29 May 2009 11:12:58 +0000

works for me to do the laundry together. while sorting it, the washer and dryer can be used to make love on while you wait for the clothes

By: David

David — Fri, 29 May 2009 01:55:35 +0000

Cherlynn: My girlfriend recently moved in with me. She also had this same issue but seemed to get rid of it. Forget about sharing chores and all that other stuff above. The sight of the other working turns my girlfriend and I on. On the weekends we sometimes do not get lots of work done but we do get lots of workouts! No wonder I’ve lost 35 lbs in 4 months! Sounds like a good thing to me. Much worse things can and do wear down a relationship. I wouldn’t let sorting clothes be a deal killer. It’s only a chore. Even as adults we have to do them. I don’t worry about her seeing my undies and vice versa cuz what we do while we’re intimate makes seeing someones undies seem like childs play ; )

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Thu, 28 May 2009 23:21:32 +0000

With my last boyfriend.. I had to bribe him with sex just to get him to DO his laundry. It a plus for me, 1, sex, 2, he SMELLS better after the clothes are clean!

By: WTF

WTF — Thu, 28 May 2009 17:58:02 +0000

Okay, so what is the point of dividing the chores if you, both, end up doing them anyway? If you’re so freaked, then just have him do his laundry and you do yours. Or you could NOT scrutinize his clothes as you’re separating whites from colors. Just a thought.