Sexpert Q&A: Bust Boosting – It’s Mental
Dear Dr. Y,
How can a man boost his partner’s confidence when it comes to her breasts?
—Scott
Dear Scott,
I think that the best thing a man can do is to tell her that her breasts are perfect. This is most effectively done when he’s cupping them during sex, admiring them like they’re the only part of her body he needs to feel satisfied.
If he feels that he can’t be totally sincere with the “perfect” bit, he should seize the opportunity to compliment her chest the next time she’s wearing an outfit that shows them off, for example, “You look absolutely stunning in that dress — I love how it shows off your breasts.” In accentuating them, he’s letting her know that she’s lovely in his book.
Also, when it comes to gift-giving time, he can get her presents that are about showing off her breasts, for example, a peek-a-boo bra that screams “play with me!”
Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”
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When it comes to breasts those two mounds of joy are enough to put me into next week. God made it possible to keep a man occupied down south and up north. I pay more attention to them than other parts of my wife. When she wears something satin over them it is pure perfection.
I wish someone would have put this info out years ago! I loved my wife of 27 years so much I still cry at night. She was a 34 B with legs to heaven. Oddly enough, my lady never aged a day and I visit the kids and as of now we are best friends in my mind so my lady and I get along well enough but I just never knew how to best complement her. She never ever doughted my love for her. Women don’t come with instructions on how to “best” meet their desire and put it in perspective. Seven years have past, we are on with our sepret lives, my girl remarried and I have two great dogs who try to fill the whole in my heart.
Breasts are wonderful things!!! I love to caress them while making love. It’s a turn-on for both she and me.
Morg’s Flirt: You are hanging with 2 dogs to try to fill the hole in your heart because you have a loser mentality! Take those dogs to the beach or park and start talking to women. It’s really easy to strike up a meaningful conversation when you have your dog(s) with you, especially with younger women. Hopefully, if your game is good enough you can bag one for the night or longer. Another place you can meet women is at the gym. I met my current GF at the gym (as well as a few other priors…). You need to accept the fact that some relationships/marriages for whatever reason just don’t last, and move on. Yes, being a single guy, even at 50+ (I’m guessing this is your age based on the number of years you were married), definitely has advantages. Besides it’s fun as hell! Best of luck to you and enjoy life!
To Brian F:
Are you for real? ‘Bag one for the night’???? What are you in, a hunting tournament? I suppose you still listen to Disco and wear a gold chain with a fertility symbol. What a fool. You shouldn’t be giving relationship advice to anyone. The guy with the two dogs is fine…the one with the loser mentality is you.
Malone23811: Fair enough, it probably was a bit crude of me to say that. Sorry for sounding like a jerk, Morgsflirt. That was not the intent.
However, I and the vast majority of adults out there are for real; we move on when a relationship isn’t working. C’mon…seven years?? Please! The guy needs a dose of reality and perhaps to grow a pair; coddling definitely won’t help.
Morgsflirt is right though, women don’t come with instructions. If you can’t or don’t figure out what their hot buttons, they’ll move on to greener pastures. Relationships 101.