Sexpert Q&A: Exploring Your Sexuality
Dear Yvonne,
I want to explore more of my sexuality and fulfill some fantasies, but I get nervous about it. How do you overcome that?
—Donna
Dear Donna,
First, educate yourself. Knowledge is power and the more you know about what you plan to explore, the more confident you’ll feel. Books, videos, expert reassurances, and hearing other’s stories can also bolster your sense of assuredness in pursuing your passions.
Second, realize that you need to be patient with yourself. Your nervousness will subside with time, especially as you gain experience and feel savvier with what you’re doing.
Finally, make sure that, when necessary, you’re exploring your sexuality with a person(s) who provide you with physical and emotional safety. You don’t need anybody judging you or adding to the performance pressure you’re putting on yourself.
Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”
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Are guys suppose to groom their pubic area?
Dear Dr. Fulbright,
I have been looking at your articles online and found them fascinating.
You appear to have really captured the essence of sensuality and intermate expression.
In one article even your own picture is sensual. The photo shows a little of your little clevage, and you have your eye glasses in your mouth in such an innocent but somehow erotic way.
This has taught me so much about the subtleties of great orgasims that I havent been able to stop since reading it and seeing your picture.
After several months practicing alone and following your advice while looking at your picture, I now feel ready to educate my wonderful partner.
I intend to be a far better husband in the bedroom after your expert advice so thank you so much.
Sparta
From the woman I have spoken to they tell me it is advisable if your weener is too small to be seen through the pubic growth which is usually up to 3 inches long. I assume this applies to you, hence your question, so the answer would be yes you should and cut or groom it very short in your case
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