Comments on: Sexpert Q&A: Showering Before Sex?

By: Mark

Mark — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 04:12:25 +0000

‘Depends on the woman. Usually, natural scents and tastes are OK and arousing. Sometimes, some women’s scents….aren’t.

By: Sage

Sage — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:22:46 +0000

For me, there is nothing as intoxicating as the intimate smell my man, his genitals, his armpits. It makes me want to just eat him up, drink him in, it shuts down my brain and I am all female animal.
Shaving can diminish this for me. Not only will I ask my boyfriend not to shave, I will ask him not to wear deodorant.

By: myloverlover

myloverlover — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 22:14:31 +0000

Seems to me that this entire discussion was spurred from the perspective of the woman NOT being comfortable with the man until she’s cleaned and prepared herself for him.

And then, there was the advise on how to convince her how to be comfortable doing it how HE wants it and not her.

What’s wrong with being content with HER comfort? I mean, this is all about trust, being free with one another and not pushing a lover into something that he/she is uncomfortable with, right?

Let’s assume you DO push her into participating outside of her comfort zone… you get all the smells and tastes that you ever wanted and then one day, you get MORE than you wanted.

What then?

If you back off and ask her to go wash, you’ve just amplified the damage.

I respectfully disagree with the argument. If she’s not ready, RESPECT THAT and comply with what will comfortably move her toward you.

Remember, loving a woman is alot like boiling a frog. Drop here in hot and she’ll jump right out. Warm her up slowly and she’s blow your mind.

If washing and feeling “fresh” is what she need to get started, be supportive and get her there anyway. The smells and taste you are looking for will come and by being supporting in this way, will come more often.

By: Jake

Jake — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 21:00:16 +0000

I completely agree with Cathy, my girlfriend and I typically make it a habit to shower together before and enjoy making it a part of our love making. It doesnt bother me to go down on her clean or natural, but if being clean makes her more comfortable about it, then im not gonna try to tell her otherwise.

By: wow

wow — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:55:56 +0000

Dr Kahn, for a doctor (if you are one) you sir are a moron. the only thing that causes any of those things is poking around something that has it to begin with. I hope you people realize there is a method to the madness, there are reasons we bath, there are reasons we “stink” there and there are reasons for pubic hair. like it or not, that is totally up to you. but you poor sheltered souls that think there is something wrong with someones preferance or urge to engage in oral sex are just stupid, childish, and very much misinformed.

Comment by Dr Khan
June 26th, 2009 at 6:13 am
Doug is 100% right….oral sex causes aids, syphilis, herpes, cancer of cervix, opening of uterus n other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)………so keep ur mouth away from genitals

Sorry I had to post it because it is so stupid…. “OMG IF YOU LICK A CLIT IT WILL ALTER THE WOMAN’S DNA” what is that…. seriously man? also, if you are going to wave around all these “facts” why dont you us the word “and” instead of “n”…. all I can say is…. WOW

By: Jake

Jake — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:51:34 +0000

I agree with Cathy. Although I dont mind going down on my girlfriend when she hasnt showered, we still typically make it a point to shower together and include that in our love making. She feels better about herself after being cleaned up and we still have a great time. There is nothing wrong with a female wanting to feel clean, even if you dont think she needs to. Its whatever makes her feel comfortable in my opinion.

By: Cathy

Cathy — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 13:02:46 +0000

My boyfriend and I take a shower together, I wash him down and he washes me down. We make it a essential part of our love making. I even perform a little oral on him in the shower! He’s never complained!

By: Greg

Greg — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 09:19:55 +0000

Some women really stink down there, and should shower and thoroughly clean. I would never go down on a woman WHO DID NOT SHOWER before hand. I mean what’s next “let’s quit washing our hands”?

Hate to tell you ladies this, but many of you stink like rotten tuna, and it sucks!

By: Hmmmm

Hmmmm — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 05:29:22 +0000

This is just gross. Just proves even more that men are pigs. I wonder why they are made like that?

By: Lisa

Lisa — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 13:39:34 +0000

As human, we are aroused by natural tastes and smells of our partners. Women should NOT, I repeat NOT use antibacterial or perfumed soaps and products on their genitalia. Just plain soap like Ivory, etc.
It upsets the natural balance of the microorganisms..(Such sexy talk, right?)

That will actually produce more odor, infection,etc.

And by the way, guys………..showers and baths all hot and steamy CAN get me in the mood……yeah…..just saying!