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Her Sex Face

Friday, October 16th, 2009

yvonne_headshot2yvonne-q1Dear Yvonne,
Would you agree that it’s important for women not to worry about the way they look during sex? After all, research shows that a woman’s partner is likely paying attention to her face and body and looking for clues that she’s feeling really good, which makes him feel good, right?
— Charlie

yvonne-a2Dear Charlie,
It’s hard for a man to gauge a woman’s sexual responsiveness. So he’s looking to her face for cues that she’s aroused, plus he’s titillating himself in seeing her “sex face” come to life. His ego goes into full gear in loving that he’s helping to make that happen for her — and he thinks it’s one of the hottest looks around. Even if a woman feels silly or is self-conscious about the way she looks, she should rest assured that he thinks she’s super sexy in that state.
 
Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

 

Refrigerator Swaps

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

tanya_zuckerbrot2Is your refrigerator making you fat? If it’s filled with foods full of calories and fat, maybe it’s time for a makeover. If you can’t figure out why you’re not shedding the pounds, you might not have to search further then your own kitchen for the answer.  Here is a list of essential swaps to get an altogether healthy body.

Whole Milk to Skim Milk
Whole Milk contains 160 calories and 8 grams of fat per cup, while skim milk contain 90 calories and 0 grams of fat per cup. The truth is, whole, low-fat and skim all have the same amount of protein and calcium. The difference is the fat content. Whole milk has more fat than low- fat or skim. There are no health benefits to drinking whole milk and it adds artery-clogging saturated fat to your diet.

Juices and Soda to homemade lemonade with Splenda and diet soda
1 cup of Tropicana lemonade contains 120 calories and 28 grams of sugar. Make your own lemonade at home by using lemons, ice, water and SPLENDA.   According to researchers at the University of Ioannina in Greece, we are consuming more soft drinks than ever before and a number of health issues have already been identified, including tooth problems, bone demineralization and the development of metabolic syndrome and diabetes.  Studies have shown that soda stimulates your appetite causing you to crave more sugar. 1 can of coke contains 143 calories and 40 grams of carbohydrates. Switching to diet coke will save you hundreds of calories throughout the day and help you lose weight in the long run.

Full fat cheese to low fat varieties
It is accurate to say that cheese is a good source of calcium and protein, but it’s also high in saturated fat. Just one slice of American cheese has 100 calories and 8 grams of fat, 5 grams of which is saturated. And while you might think of ricotta, mozzarella and feta as lower in fat, they are still considered “medium fat” cheeses and should be enjoyed sparingly. Instead of indulging, switch to low fat cheeses, which average 50 calories and 3 grams of fat per slice.

Salad dressing to fat-free dressing/vinegar
A typical dressing contains 140 calories and 13 grams of fat in 2 tablespoons. And most people use a quarter cup when they have a salad. On your salad, use balsamic vinegar liberally and sprinkle with a teaspoon of heart healthy olive oil. Or skip the oil and use two tablespoons of Parmesan cheese (55 calories) for flavor and a little bit of fat. Add lots of fresh herbs, which are cheap and can be found frozen year-round.

Mayonnaise to low- fat mayonnaise
With 110 calories and 11 grams of fat in 2 tablespoons, this spread is not a dieter’s friend. The fat in mayo is polyunsaturated, which isn’t as bad as saturated or trans fats, but it’s not as good as monounsaturated fat. Polyunsaturated fat can lower your bad cholesterol but it also can lower your good cholesterol, which protects our heart. Instead, use light mayo. The low-fat, or light, mayos average about 35 calories and 3 grams of fat in 2 tablespoons.

Low- Fat yogurt to Greek yogurt
Don’t be fooled by “fat-free labels” Just because something is fat-free doesn’t mean it is calorie-free or sugar-free. Stoneyfield Fat-Free Organic Chocolate Yogurt with fruit on the bottom contains 170 calories, 35 grams of sugar and 7 grams of protein.  For a whopping 18 grams of protein and only 7 grams of sugar switch to fat- free Greek yogurt 90 calories.

Cold cuts like bologna and salami to lean turkey and roast beef
Bologna and Salami contain 6 grams of fat per ounce. A typical sandwich has at least 6 ounces leaving you with 36 grams of fat. For a leaner meat switch to turkey and roast beef which contain very little fat and are lower in calories for the same amount of protein.

Beer to wine
Enjoying alcoholic beverages does not have to mean sabotaging your diet.  However, your choice of drink can make an impact on your waistline if you do not choose wisely. Beer is high in calories (150 calories and up) and carbs so ban it from the fridge in favor of light beer (90 to 100 calories.)  Better yet, switch to wine, a glass of red or white wine has 80 to 100 calories, and the antioxidants in red wine may help fight heart disease.

White rolls to whole grain
Ban the white stuff from the fridge – and that goes for wraps, pita and hot dog rolls, too. Refined carbohydrates cause a rapid increase and crash in your blood sugar. The fiber in whole wheat helps stabilize your blood sugar by slowing down digestion (which also keeps you feeling fuller longer and less prone to cravings)

Tanya Zuckerbrot, MS, RD is a nutritionist and founder of www.Skinnyandthecity.com.    She is also the creator of The F-Factor Diet™, an innovative nutritional program she has used for more than ten years to provide hundreds of her clients with all the tools they need to achieve easy weight loss and maintenance, improved health and well-being.  For more information log onto www.FFactorDiet.com.

His Hang Ups

Monday, August 24th, 2009

yvonne_headshot2yvonne-q1Dear Dr. Fulbright,
If a man has hang-ups about his body or is nervous to be nude in front of his partner, how can this negatively affect his sex life? My husband has put on weight and seems more sexually self-conscious because of it.
—Meg

yvonne-a2Like females, when a guy has body image hang ups, he’s going to be self-conscious during sex. He’s going to be more in his head, worrying about what his lover thinks and how he looks versus losing himself in the moment. He will also not be in the mood for sex as much, or seek it out as often. He may also be more inhibited when he does have sex, for example, lights off or sex in certain positions where she’s less likely to see him.

For both sexes, in feeling out of shape, a person doesn’t feel as sexy. It’s also harder to move — a person is going to feel more sluggish, far from peak performance. People report more vibrant sex lives when they’re in shape and exercising.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

Snacks For a Beach Bod

Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

tanya_zuckerbrot2Who wants to go to the beach feeling bloated?  Not me!  Bloating is a pretty common occurrence that most of us go through after eating.  Bloating is generally caused by water retention or gas, a buildup of air in the intestines and stomach causing you to feel like someone is pushing on your stomach, from the inside out, which can be very uncomfortable.   Here are foods to avoid and foods to enjoy for your day of fun in the sun!

Fiber:  For a flat belly, try increasing your fiber intake. A healthy adult wants to aim for 25-30 grams of fiber per day. Not only will fiber help you feel full for longer, but it will also increase bowel motility helping to remove waste and avoid any bloating. The best part of fiber is that because it is the non-digestible component of plant-based foods, it will make you feel full without adding calories! Consider eating high-fiber foods such as whole-wheat breads, high-fiber cereals, whole grains, fruits and vegetables.

Turkey sandwich: 3 oz. lean turkey on a whole-wheat pita, with 2 slices of tomato, romaine lettuce and mustard. This remake of the classic deli sandwich provides you with the perfect combination of fiber and protein on the go. Switching from white bread to whole wheat will bulk up your fiber intake while providing you with essential vitamins and nutrients. In addition, all lean meats such as turkey breast help to speed up the metabolism and burn more fat simply because they require so much energy for complete digestion.

Low-fat string cheese and an apple or pear: Low-fat string cheese is a convenient and healthy snack — especially when you’re on the go.  Although protein will provide you with needed energy, the addition of a fresh, crisp apple or juicy pear will provide you with a wonderful and filling snack of fiber and protein. According to researchers from the State University of Rio de Janeiro, overweight women who ate the equivalent of three small apples or pears a day lost more weight on a low-calorie diet than women who didn’t add fruit to their diet. This snack will keep you satiated through all your errands of the day.

Glenny’s Soy Crisps: Rather than grabbing a bag of chips, which contain unwanted calories and loads of trans fat, pick up a bag of Glennys’ Soy Crisps. They’re delectable, baked chips that come in a variety of flavors and pack in fiber and heart-healthy soy protein, and also have about 1/3 of your daily calcium needs. Whether your craving salty or sweet, these will surely keep you feeling satisfied all day long.

Gnu Flavor and Fiber bar: Thank goodness for energy bars convenient, pre-packed, pre-portioned meals that are simple, mess-free and portable! With so many different brands on the supermarket shelves, grabbing one while on the run is a simple way to satisfy your hunger… NOT SO FAST!!!

Many of these “energy bars” although marketed as “healthy” are simply glorified candy bars. Gnu flavor and fiber bars are one of your best options. Gnu bars have less than 150 calories and 3 grams of fat, but contain 12 grams of fiber —nearly half of the daily recommendation. These high-fiber, low-fat bars are a savior when you’re in a car, at the office or the gym. Choose from any of their 5 tasty flavors including cinnamon raisin, chocolate brownie, peanut butter, banana walnut, and orange cranberry.

High-potassium foods: Eating potassium-rich foods will also help combat bloating during bikini season. Potassium counterbalances sodium—which causes water retention and bloating—and has a diuretic effect on the body. So by eating foods that are high in potassium, you can reduce bloating naturally.  When picking from the produce department, choose things like bananas, papayas, kiwis, strawberries, spinach, cooked beets and broccoli.

Increase your vitamin B6 consumption: Vitamin B6 acts as a natural diuretic, which helps to prevent bloating. It’s important never to consume more than 100 mg per day. Foods rich in vitamin B6 include yellow fin tuna, roasted chicken breast and avocado.

8 dried apricot halves with 1 oz. Everybody’s Nuts pistachios (European Roast): Not only are pistachios a great source of both fiber and protein, but they also contain antioxidants and vitamin B6. Enjoy pistachios with a high-fiber fruit such as dried apricots, which provide vitamin A, promoting good vision.

Star-Kist Lunch To-Go tuna kits (omit the crackers) and 4 GG Bran Crispbread high-fiber crackers: Sometimes the most satisfying snacks are those that resemble a meal. And tuna fish on crackers is a great mini-lunch, perfect for an on-the-go snack packed with 20 grams of fiber and and 20 grams of protein! Best of all, it comes filled with mayo, relish and a mini spoon!

Add in some vitamin E and polyphenols:  Foods which contain polyphenols and vitamin E protect skin from damaging free radicals. For example, a preliminary finding in the Journal of Nutrition suggest that a regular intake of poleyphenols found in dark chocolate make skin hydrated and lessen the effects of a sunburn.

Dark chocolate: If a chocolate craving hits, nibble on some dark chocolate which contains both vitamin E and polyphenols.

Green tea: Rather than sipping on an ice-cold lemonade which contains 175 calories and 42 grams of sugar, sip on iced green tea. Not only is this calorie-free and sugar-free, keeping your waistline in tact, it contains polyphenols to protect your skin. And an added bonus, it contains EGCG, which studies have shown can rev up your metabolism and  help you burn fat.

Sunflower seeds: Sunflower seeds are a great snack for the beach and contain high amounts of vitamin E.
Water: Not drinking enough water can cause dehydration, which leads to subsequent bloating. This is why it’s so important to drink enough water. In the summer months, it’s easy and essential to increase fluids by adding sugar-free drink flavor packets to water bottles or fresh lemons and limes to plain water. In addition, water keeps you feeling full so you don’t confuse your hunger with thirst. Aim to drink eight 8-oz glasses of water a day or keep a water bottle with you to help you reach your water goal!

Foods to Avoid before and at the Beach:

Salty, highly-processed foods: Sodium causes the body to retain water, which in essence causes bloating—this leads to you feeling as big as a balloon. Avoid foods like hot dogs, which are high in both fat and sodium. Also, avoid the fast food counter where options are usually extremely high in sodium. Avoiding any kind of salty snacks such as pretzels and potato chips, is essential to maintaining your bikini body,.  

Gassy foods: Certain foods create more gas in your GI tract than others. This includes raw vegetables and legumes such as cauliflower, broccoli, peppers, onions and cabbage. However, many times if you cook these vegetables, they will deliver the same nutrients, but take up less room in your GI tract — leaving you feeling skinnier and ready to dress in your mini bikini.

Chewing gum: Many people don’t realize this, but chewing gum can cause bloating because it causes you to swallow air. All that air gets trapped in your GI tract and causes pressure, bloating and belly expansion.

Sugar-free candies: Sugar-free candies and gum often contain sorbitol. Sorbitol is a sugar substitute that acts as a laxative, which draws water into the large intestine. As little as four sticks of sorbitol-containing gum can cause bloating and abdominal pain.

Tanya Zuckerbrot, MS, RD is a nutritionist and founder of www.Skinnyandthecity.com.    She is also the creator of The F-Factor Diet™, an innovative nutritional program she has used for more than ten years to provide hundreds of her clients with all the tools they need to achieve easy weight loss and maintenance, improved health and well-being.  For more information log onto www.FFactorDiet.com.

Ten Affordable Tips for Glowing Skin

Friday, March 6th, 2009

82x104_sadickIn today’s economy, we are all looking for affordable but effective ways to keep skin looking its best.  From the dollar store to the department store, there are many products available.  The reality is that most of them are great.  There are, however, home alternatives which often times don’t require a shopping trip.  Not only do these alternatives work, but they are also fun and simple to create.

TREAT ACNE
Acne can be one of those persistent problems, popping up at the worst time.  We’ve all had these flare-ups, which include pimples before a big party or that pimple that appears just before an important date.  The best at home treatment for acne is a warm compress, consisting of a washcloth and some warm water. 
Then follow these steps: 
1. Apply the warm washcloth to the pimple or acne-prone area
2. Hold the compress on for 3-5 minutes, continually warming it up as necessary, to maintain a warm feeling on your skin  
3. Be sure not to use water that is too hot — not only will it burn the skin, but it won’t do any good in treating the acne   
4. Repeat the compress every 2-4 hours until the acne disappears.  Depending on where you are in the acne breakout, your acne should clear up within 24-36 hours  

For an inexpensive product that can be used in conjunction with this remedy I suggest Unblemished Treatment Concealer by Beauty Benefits. 

UNCLOG BLACKHEADS
Not many faces are blackhead free… To help rid your skin of these, use oatmeal and rose water to create a soft paste.  Cover blackheads with the paste and rub it into your skin.  Wait 15-20 minutes and then rinse away.  You can also use this oatmeal mask all over your face for a radiant glow.  

If you are in a rush, and don’t have time to create the paste, simply head to your nearest drugstore and purchase Neutrogena Healthy Skin and Neutrogena Healthy Skin Anti-Wrinkle Anti-Blemish Scrub

CLEANSE AND EXFOLIATE
For an affordable but effective skin cleanser and exfoliator, I recommend creating a solution of sugar and water.  Before putting the solution on, open pores by first leaving a warm cloth over your face for a few minutes.  Rub the water and sugar solution gently into your skin and then rinse.  This does a great job and will leave your skin clear, clean and refreshed.

For a more aggressive exfoliator, mix in sea salt instead of sugar.  This can be used to exfoliate your entire body and works great on those annoying rough spots like feet, knees and elbows.

Not interested in making it yourself? Pick up St. Ives Apricot Scrub.  It’s a solid alternative.

ALLEVIATE DRY SKIN
Take a quick trip to your pantry and pull out a bottle of olive oil … Olive oil was good enough for the ancient Greeks and it’s good enough for you, too.  The ancient Greeks used olive oil to bathe and to moisturize dry skin.  Almost every vegetable oil is compatible with the skin.  Apply just after bathing to moisturize and protect dry skin.  Use it daily to help reduce dry patches and the appearance of stretch marks. 

While I recommend olive oil for any skin, if you insist on store bought, try good old Coconut Body Butter.

HYDRATE
Drink water every day.  We know it’s good for us in every way.  It makes your skin look great, too.

NOURISH YOUR SKIN
Facial masks can be fun and help rejuvenate your skin.  Try making one at home.  A honey mask is a great way to brighten and lighten your skin.  Mix one tablespoon of honey, one egg yolk and one teaspoon of olive oil together.  Beat the egg yolk first and then add the oil and blend well.  Add the honey with a spoon rinsed in hot water and blend well.  Apply this honey mask to your face, avoiding your eye area.  Leave on your face for 20-30 minutes and rinse.  The difference is visible.

A great alternative to the honey mask is The Original Mint Julep Masque available at almost any drugstore.

TONE AND TIGHTEN
NE Witch hazel, available at any drug store has been the main ingredient in most toners and is not irritating to the skin. It still works great on its own.  Gently wash your face.  Pat your skin dry and then apply witch hazel with a cotton ball.  If you have dry flaky skin, try diluting the witch hazel with two parts water.  Since witch hazel is an astringent, always moisturize after you tone.  Try mixing two tablespoons of witch hazel with one teaspoon of lemon juice and three tablespoons of rose water for a refreshing toner.

Be sure to keep witch hazel at home.  Not only does it do a great job of toning and tightening your skin, but it’s an excellent topical remedy for the treatment of traumatic bruises and bumps and promotes speedy healing.

MOISTURIZE
Moisturizing is essential for your skin not only because it locks in hydration, but moisturizer creates a protective barrier between your skin and the elements.  Making an effective moisturizer at home is not difficult. Take five to six drops of sweet almond oil and add a few drops of water. Mix the two ingredients in your palms, rubbing both hands together then gently smooth the blend into your skin. 

Moisturizing is the bottom line in skincare — almost any moisturizer will do the trick.  Eucerin Extra Protective Moisture Lotion with SPF is a great body moisturizer and it is available at most drugstores nationwide.

SOOTHE
From time to time you may find your skin red and irritated.  Taking care of red, irritated skin at home is as easy as a glass of milk. It doesn’t matter if you prefer cow’s or soy milk ― they both get the job done.  Soak a wash cloth in milk and then apply the cloth to the effected area.  Leave on the skin for at least five minutes.  Repeat as often as necessary depending on the irritation.  Milk sooths and calms the skin and helps to promote healing while softening and nourishing the skin.

For the store bought alternative, try an aloe vera gel.  It’s cooling to the skin and aloe naturally helps promote healing. 

MINIMIZE PORES
Our pores are an open target. They collect oil and often get clogged, causing the pores to appear larger than we want.  The easiest treatment option is actually free.  Run hot water into a stopped sink or a large bowl. Drape a towel over your head and lean over the steam.  Using the towel helps to trap in the rising steam.  Gently cleansing the skin or gently exfoliating the skin helps minimize the appearance of clogged pores.  Pat skin dry and use a toner to tighten and refine.

A great option that you can purchase in the store is Neutrogena Pore Minimizing Mask.  It will minimize the appearance of your pores and refresh your skin.

Dr. Neil Sadick is one of the most renowned dermatologists and researchers whose multiple discoveries have strongly influenced and transformed the future of dermatology. He is a Professor of Dermatology at Weill Cornell Medical College and President of the Cosmetic Surgery Foundation. Dr. Sadick is author, or co-author, of more than 500 articles in peer-reviewed scientific journals and has contributed more than 75 chapters of medical books. Read more at www.sadickdermatology.com.

Sexpert Q & A: Feeling Self-Conscious During Sex

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Dear Dr. Y,
I am so self-conscious about my body that I can’t get out of my head enough during sex to orgasm.  I worry about what my partner might be thinking about – all of the imperfections and squishy parts – instead of about my pleasure. What do I do about this head game?
Leslie

Dear Leslie,
Socialization and habit dictate the positive and negative response you’re having to your own body. Undoing these notions can be a challenge, but yoga, therapy, massage and other naturopathic/holistic exercises and treatments can be excellent tools for getting comfortable in your skin and accepting yourself as a beautiful living specimen.

 You can also take on this head game by standing in front of the mirror after your next shower. Take a deep breath as you look at each body part as objectively as possible. Watch for programmed responses and move past them by letting go of them. Acknowledge and accept each part of your whole without judging. Labels are so harsh, and can impede your ability to realize that, for example, a potbelly is just a belly – not good or bad, merely a belly. 

 If you still feel terribly self-conscious post-body and soul work, a trainer might be able to help you design an exercise program to trim down, bulk up or change your overall appearance. But make sure you do it for you – to feel better about your figure. Learning to love your self in is a vital part of a fulfilled life, not limited to the realm of sexual satisfaction. Self-love is the cornerstone to being fully capable of loving anyone else.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

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