Dear Yvonne,
You had an article on cohabitation and it mentioned that some states have common-law marriages. Which states recognize them and what are the major benefits of such domestic partnerships?
-Bart

Dear Bart,
Common-law “marriage” is recognized in these states: Alabama, Colorado, Washington, DC, Georgia, Idaho, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas and Utah.

In such partnerships, assets may be mutually owned, which means that if a couple splits up, they may have to fight for money, for example, trust funds, a 401(k), or savings accounts.

Among the benefits of a domestic partnership are:

- Health, dental and vision insurance
- Sick and bereavement leave
- Death benefits
- Accident and life insurance
- Parental leave
- Housing rights and tuition reduction
- Use of recreational facilities 
 
If you’re considering a domestic partnership/common-law “marriage,” it would be wise to read up on the latest laws in your state before taking this big step.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”