Dear Yvonne,
I want more “morning sex,” but my girlfriend has admitted that bad breath concerns are holding her back. While brushing our teeth beforehand is an obvious answer, it’s not exactly the sexiest form of foreplay.
Any ideas on how we can nip this problem in the bud?
                     Tim

Dear Tim,
The first thought that comes to mind is to have breakfast in bed. Having coffee and a bite together in your boudoir can help ease bad breath concerns. A more creative approach, however, would be to be each other’s breakfast. This is a great opportunity for oral sex with enhancers, like flavored lubes and condoms, breath mints, hot tea, ice cubes… anything edible that can help to provide a different sensation when going down on each other - and kill bad breath concerns. Furthermore, get creative in your “menu” choices - don’t be afraid to start off your day with dessert!

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

Dear Dr. Yvonne,
After a weekend of pre-marriage counseling, my fiancé and I have been challenged by our church to practice abstinence until our wedding night. My fiancé is super sexy and we’ve had such an active sex life that I think the next two months are going to kill me. Any suggestions on how I can reduce my sex drive??
Neil

Dear Neil,
What you’re referring to are anaphrodiaics – substances that decrease sexual urges. To reduce your libido, people have been known to:

1. Read something really boring.
2. Excessively use coffee, tea, tobacco, alcohol, lime juice, vinegar or lemons, as all are known to lessen desire. (Note: I’m not recommending them and it wouldn’t be wise to use these in great quantities).

My recommendation: Don’t worry about decreasing your libido, but allow yourself to embrace this time of being super-charged for your wedding night. In dealing with your sexual craving, simply find more time for self-pleasuring.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

Dear Dr. Yvonne,
My mother-in-law-to-be keeps putting pressure on my partner and I to get married. We’ve been together 3 years, living together for 18 months and we are in no rush to get hitched (though we plan to someday).
How do we handle this without being rude?
She has gotten really annoying.
Chris

Dear Chris,
Many couples, especially those who choose to cohabitate before marriage, often find themselves dealing with pressure from family members, friends, and even random strangers when it comes to tying the knot. Fortunately, there are a number of ways you can deal with your to-be-mother-in-law:

1. Explain that couples today are dating longer and getting married later. You’re part of a sociological trend that is becoming the norm. Stress the fact that there are generational differences when it comes to getting married and that many are waiting to get to know each other well – and not giving into pressure from others – when it comes to taking this most important step.

2.  Be honest and straight-forward. Let her know how you feel and that you don’t think your wedding date should be any of her business. You can say this delicately while being firm. Better yet, your partner should be the one having this heart-to-heart with this mother. One or both of you need to ask her to stop putting pressure on you. You need to make it clear that she needs to respect that and that you’re feeling disrespected that she’s made your union about her needs and not your own.

3. Change the subject. After a while, people will get a hint.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

Hello Dr. Fulbright:
I have heard that heat (such as a hot bath or directly-applied streams of hot water in the shower) can reduce sperm counts (like a natural birth control). How much truth is there to that?
DJ

Dear DJ,
Exposure to heat impacts a man’s semen in primarily two ways:
1. It affects sperm motility. This is in part due to heat exposure damaging sperm as they mature in the epididymis.
2. It affects normal sperm production. (Men with fertility problems are often discouraged from submerging themselves in hot bodies of water).

Heat should not, however, be regarded as a form of birth control. Having sex in a hot environment, like a hot tub, does not prevent pregnancy of sexually transmitted infections.

Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

 
Dear Yvonne: What is the A-spot?
Angel

 
Dear Angel,
The A spot is the “Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone.” This is located midway between a woman’s cervix and G spot on the front wall of the vagina. It appears as a spongy, wrinkled swelling, which is extremely sensitive to touch.

A few years ago, a Malaysian sex researcher reported on the AFE Zone, as it is also known, for the first time. In working with couples who were suffering from vaginal dryness during sex, he found that stimulation of this area can result in increased vaginal lubrication. Stimulating this area can help some women become more orgasmic, given its erotic sensitivity.
 

 Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

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